'Desperate Housewives' model of church!
Wednesday, September 17th, 2008Yes, so I watch Desperate Housewives. So shoot me. It started off being related to a chapter I wrote for a book (sex and the cynics) and also an article online… and then i just carried on watching… escapism at it’s v best!!
any-hoo, the other wk on the show i witnessed a fab model of the church (as in the sunday morning service). yes, really. Lynette decided to start going to church so went along with Bree (presbyterian). Mid-sermon Lynette raised her hand and asked a question related to the sermon: why was there so much suffering in the world. When the minister had given a bit of an answer she asked a couple more questions. Bree was embarrassed and humiliated: “we don’t do that sort of thing at church, she said. Church is for answers, not questions.” “Yes, Lynette replies, but how can you get any answers if you don’t ask questions first?” When Bree apologies to her minister he says he’s always thought church should involve more participation and hoped she’d come again!
I have waffled on about this before, i know, but why are so so many churches stuck with the monologue sermon? Since when did we all want to hear a 20 min lecture on a sunday morning? Now, i’ve actually nothing against a lecture now and then, but just how many other approaches to God’s word we could explore! I like the idea of a short talk (5 mins) then split into discussion groups and feedback afterwards, followed by perhaps another short talk to finish up. Or discussion in pairs even.
Even if we did this slightly more ‘radical’ (though I would rather see it as being normal) learning together just once a month, say, it would be better that nothing. How about having a 4 wk cycle: monologue sermon one wk, prayer the next, small group discussion the next and sharing/testimonies the next? Why are we so hung up on the sunday morning service being just as it’s always been throughout the ages? Tradition is not something to be obeyed… we reserve that honour for God and God alone, don’t we?
it has to be said that ultimately i’m a lot more interested in us ‘being church’ aka the body of christ, than i am with what we do on a sunday morning. it’s how we live as church that’s important. but still, that doesn’t mean sunday mornings have to continue to follow the same pattern for the next trillion years, does it?
come on guys… someone say you’re with me on this…?!
if those desperate housewives can manage it, surely there’s some hope for the rest of us…!!










