
this article was published on ‘thesheepdip’ in july of this year.
Can ’stuff’ buy happiness?
Joanne Gilbert, a 47 year old Welsh Grandmother was off on sick leave when she won the lottery – a cool £1.1 million, back in June of this year. However, she said she wanted to keep her feet on the ground with her £6-an-hour part-time job, working as a hospital cleaner. “I know it might seem strange to some people but I’ve been working at the hospital for 21 years, and it is a big part of my life.” explained Joanne, “I’m determined to keep my feet on the ground and just wanted to put my life back on an even keel after all the excitement.”
She opted against buying a bigger, grander house… but to remain in the terraced house she lived in. Similarly, she chose not to buy a flashy bling bling car, but to stick with her Peugeot 206.
The question to consider here is not so much ‘Can money buy happiness?’ but ‘Can stuff buy happiness?’ Think about it for a moment… what would you do? You’ve won the lottery or you’ve inherited a fortune – what would your next move be? It’s all very well to say that it wouldn’t change your life; that you’d do the same as Joanne did and carry on as normal, but would you really? Would you?! For many of us, the first thing we’d be considering would be purchasing bigger and better stuff. A new house, and plenty of new furniture to kit it out. A new car (or cars). New clothes. New gadgets. New toys for the kids. New stuff – loads of it.
We often hear of studies that reveal that, surprise surprise, the richest people aren’t always the happiest. Jesus promoted a similar idea: ‘Don’t invest in goods with a sell-by date; build up your balance in heaven. Don’t let dosh boss you around’ (Not his actual words, but the ‘Street Bible’s’ interpretation of them, taken from Matthew 6). Even if we haven’t come into vast amounts of money, it’s safe to say that we are, in fact very rich. If we have a roof over our head, food in the cupboard and clothes to wear, we are amongst the world’s top 25% richest. Yes… us… rich. Congratulations!
Instead of lusting after the ’stuff’ we would love to have but can’t afford, let’s be grateful for what God has given us. ‘There is far more to your life that the food you put in your stomach, more to your outer appearance that the clothes you hang on your body. Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds. Has anyone fussing in the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? … walk out into the fields and look at the wild flowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? … What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving.’ (Matthew 6 again, taken from ‘The Message’)
Here’s a crazy idea. Make a list of all the material things you really want. All that stuff. Don’t be shy; if you want it, stick it on the list – it’s not as if you have to show anyone! Then, make a list of all the things you have got to be grateful to God for. Perhaps start with material things, and the fact that you’re one of the richest people on the planet, and lead on to more personal things – your family, friends, job (or whatever aspects of it you enjoy) hobbies, church, your favourite things – TV programmes, food, music, and so on. Why don’t you have these lists on the go over the space of a week; it’s sometimes hard to think of these things all in one go – too much stress on the brain! When you really can’t think of anything else to add to either list, take them to God. Be honest with Him about the things you wished you had – He knows it anyway, but He’d love for you to share those desires with Him. Ask Him to help you want them less. Rip that list up, or burn it. Then share the ‘grateful’ list with Him. Thank him for each and every thing on it – take your time. Allow yourself a little cry if you feel so inclined; sometimes it’s only when we stop and think about what we do have that we realise how blessed we really are. Ask Him to remind you of this list more frequently. Keep it. Pin it to your kitchen/office noticeboard.
You never know, do this on a regular basis and you too might be able to ‘do a Joanne’ and not allow money, and the ’stuff’ it can buy, to dominate your life… you never know.
PS Piccie is of Lake Como, Italy, from our recent hol… relevant as George Clooney, and other such rich dudes, has a villa here somewhere… is he happy, really?! (yes, probably!)